First off, let me say that I am in no way an expert on the topic of making my man feel like a winner with me, but that is exactly why I'm writing this post. Truthfully, I've managed to perfect not making him feel like a winner more often than not. The reasons abound, but instead of going there, let me just own up to being a spoiled brat at times and living with fairy-tale expectations of what marriage should be.
My husband enjoys blowing off steam by playing his latest NBA 2K video game, and he has won championships, endorsements, 9 out of 10 times is elected the Most Valuable Player- MVP- of the game, and is well on his way to being a Hall-of-Famer. Not to mention his unrivaled custom NBA2K shoe collection. Me on the other hand, I can barely sit through one quarter before I'm twiddling my thumbs, stressing about all the work I have to do tomorrow, and often itching to get his attention away from the game. It's not that he plays too much - he is very responsible and attentive to life and me. But as of this morning, something CLICKED as to why he doesn't feel like a winner with me and want to "play" and engage in affection and romance with me more often.
